A Southwestern Black-Tie Wedding Weekend

Becki &
Dustin

Explore the weekend
Come for the vows. Stay for the adventure.

Not your average wedding weekend

Our favorite people,
one extraordinary place.

We’re trading a traditional wedding day for a long weekend together in the red-rock desert. This site will be your source of truth as plans are finalized—save it, check back, and complete the RSVP below.

The itinerary

Four days in Moab

Exact times and transportation details will be added as reservations are confirmed.

01
SaturdaySeptember 4

Arrivals in the desert

Settle in and ease into the weekend with an informal welcome at the house.

02
SundaySeptember 5

Group adventure + dinner

Morning — Group adventure. Evening — Southwestern Black-Tie dinner, drinks, and a few surprises.

03
MondaySeptember 6

The wedding

Our ceremony and a relaxed-but-dressy celebration in the red-rock desert.

04
TuesdaySeptember 7

Farewell breakfast

Coffee, an easy breakfast, hugs, and departures—or your next Utah adventure.

Desert Vista RetreatOur weekend home base

Where to stay

Under one roof,
as much as possible.

Our 12-suite house will be the center of the weekend. Invitations will indicate whether a room is being held for your party. If you’re looking for a hotel or rental nearby, use the house as your location reference.

House arrivalsSaturday, September 4
House departuresTuesday, September 7

If booking your own accommodations, we recommend staying within 15 minutes of the main house. Any group transportation offered during the weekend will be limited to designated pickup locations in central Moab; guests staying elsewhere should plan to provide their own transportation.

Please do not book lodging based on assumptions. Tell us your dates in the RSVP and we’ll confirm your arrangement directly.

Getting there

Your route to the red rocks

Moab is remote—that is part of the magic. It also means waiting too long to book flights is a bad strategy.

01

Fly to Moab

Canyonlands Field Airport is the closest airport, about 20 miles north of town. Flight options are limited.

Airport pickup will be available from Canyonlands Field.

02

Fly + drive

Grand Junction is roughly a two-hour drive. Salt Lake City offers the most flight choices with a longer scenic drive.

Guests flying into Grand Junction or Salt Lake City will need to arrange their own transportation to Moab.

03

Transportation

A rental car is recommended unless we confirm group transportation for your arrival and departure times.

What to wear

Two events,
two moods.

The weekend has two distinct dress codes. Sunday is the formal night; Monday’s wedding is polished, celebratory, and easier to move in.

Sunday night

Southwestern Black Tie
Floor-length gowns, elevated cocktail dresses, tuxedos or dark suits, rich desert colors, turquoise, refined boots, and strong accessories.

Monday wedding

Elevated Desert Attire
Dressy separates, midi or maxi dresses, suits without the black-tie formality, polished boots, and footwear suited to uneven terrain.

Good to know

Questions, answered.

Are children invited?+

This will be an adults-only wedding weekend unless your invitation says otherwise.

When will the full itinerary be shared?+

We’re keeping a few surprises for now. Times, transportation, and what to bring will be shared well before the weekend.

Will meals be provided?+

Several group meals are planned. RSVP with dietary restrictions so we can plan responsibly.

What will the weather be like?+

Expect warm days, cooler desert evenings, strong sun, and very little shade. Bring layers, hydration, and sunscreen.

Can I extend my trip?+

Absolutely. Just keep our confirmed lodging dates separate from your personal plans.

Kindly reply

Will you join us?

Please submit one response per household. You can update travel details later.

Wedding attendance